NEXT Magazine wrote an article about me for their Body Issue. It tells the intimate story of my road to Tantra and mindfulness via a mire of depression, anxiety, disordered eating and body image BS. It's a story of a 20-something’s Tantric journey, sharing how I began to find ease and self-love, pleasure and authenticity through getting closer to mySelf, my voice, my desire.Read More
Louise Bouchier is a pleasure physiology expert and sex educator for adults.
I asked the SexyLove Project community for Qs about the science of pleasure, and Louise answered them for us!
Multiple orgasms, building desire, the mechanics of pleasure... Read on to discover the science of pleasure.Read More
Lots of curious folks who are new to Tantra ask me for good books to get started.
So I’ve curated a list of favourite tried-and-tested Tantra and conscious sexuality books.
They’re really accessible, practical, and geared toward you having mind-blowing sex for the 21st Century.Read More
Ok, I’m quite obsessed with this new TV documentary series. It’s called Luke Warm Sex.
It follows this super awkward Australian comedian Luke McGregor on his journey toward having better sex. And we get to learn all the tips! It’s kinda like going to a bunch of Tantra workshops and watching a standup comedy show from your couch.Read More
This post is about a crazy (awesome) workshop I went to about sexual fantasies by Ohad Ezrahi. This guy is amazing. His workshop made me giggle and bent my mind. I keep thinking about it, weeks on. Here's what he said about sexual fantasies...Read More
Meet Margot Anand: an amazing French woman who giggles, calls you up on your shit, and wears garlands of flowers in her long grey hair... Read on for tips I gathered. Plus a video and Tantra resources.Read More
Imagine sex where you didn’t have to ‘get it right’. Make sure your partner comes. Be the best lay they’ve ever had. Every time.
SlowSex is about removing sexual scripts—removing expectations and goals. In SlowSex it’s ok to relax! It’s about creating room for really being with your partner. It's about deepening intimacy. Read this to find out more and how to do it!
Here are some of my favourite sexy-time tips. They’re things I've discovered in my Tantra/conscious-sexuality adventures and may be a little different to the standard Cosmo/internet videos. Thankfully. I’ve tried and tested all of the practices and am sharing my top-scoring faves ;) Lots to share, so I’ve made it into a series.Read More
How do you feel about surrender? Control? In regular life and in the bedroom? Relaxed and excited? Tight and grossed out? Here's a story about my relationship to both, plus a homeplay practice to get you feeling easy, breezy and excited about surrendering and taking action—in the bedroom and in life.Read More