My ‘aha’ moment with the big O (8 keys for effortless, expansive & blissful orgasms)

We tend to treat female orgasms like work: we’re on the hunt for them, chasing them down with ferocity. We put in the measured steps to ensure we get the outcome. We tense up, contract, and feel guilty if the orgasm takes too long to find. 

This minimises the pleasure and orgasmic range. Here are 8 keys to maximise pleasure and experience a whole range of different types of orgasms.

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My 4 favourite Tantra 101 books you’ll love (this is Tantra for the 21st Century)

Lots of curious folks who are new to Tantra ask me for good books to get started. 

So I’ve curated a list of favourite tried-and-tested Tantra and conscious sexuality books.

They’re really accessible, practical, and geared toward you having mind-blowing sex for the 21st Century.

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Watch the dorkiest man alive learn how to have better sex (and give you the tips)

Ok, I’m quite obsessed with this new TV documentary series. It’s called Luke Warm Sex.

It follows this super awkward Australian comedian Luke McGregor on his journey toward having better sex. And we get to learn all the tips! It’s kinda like going to a bunch of Tantra workshops and watching a standup comedy show from your couch.

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Slow sex (Taste of Love Festival highlights SexyLove Project—Part I)

Imagine sex where you didn’t have to ‘get it right’. Make sure your partner comes. Be the best lay they’ve ever had. Every time.
 
SlowSex is about removing sexual scripts—removing expectations and goals. In SlowSex it’s ok to relax! It’s about creating room for really being with your partner. It's about deepening intimacy. Read this to find out more and how to do it!

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My fave Tantric sex tips (that you won’t see in Cosmo or media) — Part one |

Here are some of my favourite sexy-time tips. They’re things I've discovered in my Tantra/conscious-sexuality adventures and may be a little different to the standard Cosmo/internet videos. Thankfully. I’ve tried and tested all of the practices and am sharing my top-scoring faves ;)  Lots to share, so I’ve made it into a series.

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Are you shrinking or expanding your pleasure? A short vid on the physiology of pleasure

This week I want to share this awesome video about the physiology of pleasure. It’s about the physical + chemical mechanics of pleasure, why it's so good for you and how to access the really delicious varieties that work (yes, there are different kinds of pleasure!).

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