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Conscious opening relating: a 101 — BALI

  • Karma House Ubud Bali (map)

The wild Wild West of relationships: open relating. You’re curious to start, or maybe you already have.

It’s uncharted territory with very exciting, expansive and unifying potential... and very scary emotions and possibilities lurking...

How do we allow these relationships to bring joy, expansion and communion rather than contraction, fear and jealousy?

How can you and your relationship grow?

How do we navigate this new territory consciously?

Join us for a night of discussion, practical tools and tested approaches for unlocking the magic of open relating in all its beauty and power.

 What you’ll get out of this talk + practical workshop:

  • Build a strong foundation by being clear on the Why of relationships and open relating

  • Learn about different relationship paths and styles (incl. the difference between open relating and polyamory) and what my feel right for you now

  • Discover the essential ingredients for building more connection, authenticity and joy with yourSelf and partner(s)

  • Find out the common pitfalls and how to best avoid them (ways to save heartache!)

  • Get practical tips and ideas for ways to ease into exploring while minimising the angst (incl. types of agreements and how to set them)

  • Practice tools to work through sticky emotions like jealousy, fear and inadequacy

  • Illuminate important oversights in the terrain (e.g. aftercare)

  • Learn how to communicate with partner(s) to get on the same page and build connection

Note that Caitlyn does not advocate for open relationships, monogamy, or any particular style. She advocates tuning into your authentic feeling and heart and making decisions and designs from there.

This is not promotion for poly. It’s about tools, discussion and exploration of what’s real for you and building Love.

This workshop is appropriate for singles, people in relationship(s), and people of all orientations, cis, trans and non-binary folks. You’re in your personal sovereignty 100% of the time. While we discuss sexuality, all practices are clothed and not ‘interactive’. 

Who’s facilitating?

Me, Caitlyn, and Xavier Bouquillard.

Caitlyn is an international mindful sexuality and shamanic healing coach, writer and artist. She began exploring open relationships 12 years ago and learnt many lessons in this time: in hard, fun, explosive and expansive ways.

Caitlyn’s work centers embodiedness and explores Love, freedom, body-image, authenticity, surrender, and power. Her influences are broad, including mindfulness, shamanism, sexual alchemy, acting, entheogens, psychodrama, nature, movement and ritual.

Undertaking comprehensive training with International School of Temple Arts (ISTA), mentorship with multiple leaders in the field, and Shamanic Studies Asia, Caitlyn teaches independently as well as with the renowned ISTA in sacred sexual shamanism.

Xavier is an International School of Temple Arts facilitator and powerful Love Warrior dedicating his life to being a channel through which Love can manifest. He practices everyday with many different tools and modalities to continually deepen into his capacity.

With full presence and gratitude and leading by example Xavier is working to heal and teach in the areas of presence, sexuality, relating and the power of the divine masculine and feminine. Studying as much as possible and being in service on a daily basis.

Born in France in the 70s Xavier now lives in Byron Bay Australia where he surfs, gardens and works on his life mission. Over the years he has studied with many teachers and masters. Moving into his own unique practices and techniques, he has recently begun offering them publicly in the form of counseling sessions, tantric healing massages, Holographic kinetics, Reiki, coaching and training.

How much?

For two facilitators bringing 4.5 hours of relationship and heart gems, it’s

 AU$55 // US$35 // 504,000 IDR if you buy online (10% discount)

OR AU$60 // US$40 // 560,000 IDRAU$60 // US$40 // 560,000 IDR if you buy at the door


See here or contact me.