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Giving & receiving real good: Tantra-inspired workshop (half day)—WLG

  • Double Denim 110 Cuba Street Wellington, Wellington, 6011 New Zealand (map)

Presented by the Ace Lady Network.

We often feel guilty about receiving (Does she really want to do that?), or nervous about giving (Am I doing it right?).

In this workshop, we’ll learn specific approaches to feel confident and at ease in giving and receiving, feel anxiety-free pleasure and create space for play & connection you didn’t know was possible! Working with Betty Martin's concepts of Serving/Accepting and Taking/Allowing, we explore specific ways to enjoy a range of giving and receiving dynamics in ways that feel playful, abundant, authentic and nurturing. 

This is about learning to connect with people in ways that truly work for you and them. Expanding your sense of what's possible for you, what you deserve, and how to go about giving and receiving in new ways. It's about learning to connect without being stuck in your mind, having anxiety about 'doing it right', or guilt for just wanting to soak it up! Just lots of yumminess.

A big part of giving and really receiving in ways that feel easy, breezy and delicious involves tuning into ourselves and becoming aware of what we actually want. Muchos importanto.

In our session together, we’ll:

  • Discover new dynamics of giving and receiving that help us feel full and connected
  • Expand your repertoire and learn how to give and receive real and full pleasure
  • Explore new territories of connection, pleasure and yummy relating
  • Get out of your mind and into the present moment (with yourself and your beloved)
  • Move beyond performance and being your head, into easeful & blissful connection
  • Learn to stop tolerating and start honouring your genuine desire (that's where magic happens!)
  • Learn simple ways to communicate that feel easy and breezy
  • Discover easy and fun games you can play with your partner in the bedroom

Note that this workshop is PG rated—you could do the entire thing with your grandma and it wouldn’t be awkward. It’s all very casual and fun.

This workshop is appropriate for singles, couples and people of all orientations. You’ll only do the stuff you want to do—you’re in your personal sovereignty 100% of the time. The class is fully clothed. This workshop relates to sexuality, but it involves non-sexual, uncomplicated and beautiful interaction. Promise.

Who's facilitating?

Me, Caitlyn. I'm dedicated to freedom and authenticity. What are the ways that hold us back and how can we be free, expressed and full? I use my work in visual and performance art, Tantra-inspired, mindful sexuality and more to explore this and take people on experiential and healing journies to get free. 

I used to suffer from clinical depression, anxiety, and disordered eating. It sucked. I found Tantra six years ago (and many other modalities besides) and loooove what it continues to unlock for me—body confidence, trust with others, pleasure, aliveness, authenticity.

I have a playful, no BS, and accessible way of teaching mindful sexuality and spiritual/personal development. I celebrate the power of the body and vulnerability and see this as the place for healing, connection, and empowered living.

How much is it?

The half-day workshop is $89.

 

These workshops always sell out. So, take the plunge and get your tickets now :)

We also offer a 100% money back guarantee if you get nothing out of the event after fully participating. We really believe in this work!

FAQs

HOW CHALLENGING WILL IT BE?
It’s possible we’ll explore territory that feels a bit new or edge-y for you—this is where the healing, expansion, and release lives! We encourage you to be bold and honour your needs throughout the workshop so you always feel safe.

DO I HAVE TO DO STUFF? OR JUST LISTEN TO YOU TALK?
You have free choice at all times. All exercises are 100% voluntary and you can choose to sit and watch if that is what feels best for you. The workshop will be a little bit of listening, mostly doing. It's experiential—this allows you to learn things & make shifts with your mind, emotions and spirit. Powerful stuff.

HOW INTIMATE IS THIS WORKSHOP?
This workshop can relate to sexuality at times, but there is no erotic touch between participants. Also, you don’t have to do anything, ever—you’re fully in your personal sovereignty 100% of the time.

IS IT FOR SINGLE PEOPLE? OR PEOPLE WITH PARTNERS?
Both: it's suitable for everyone. For people with partners, this workshop can transform your relationship. 

ALL GENDERS- AND QUEER-FRIENDLY?
This workshop is for people who identify as women. Cis, trans, and non-binary folks welcome. Very queer friendly.

WHO ELSE WILL BE THERE?
Me, your friends, and cool people you haven’t met yet. Bring a friend, if you’re nervous or want to have some cool and healthy growth experiences with a favourite pal!

Take the plunge! Get your tickets now.

Or if you have any other questions, get in touch with me.